A great way to purify your life of these obstacles is to practice giving blessings. You should not bother trying to insist that others change; instead you should initiate the change you want to see in them by changing your own behavior towards them now. When you bless someone, they are transformed in their own way. In turn, when you lead a life of truly loving and blessing others, you are transformed. Your life will change before your eyes.
A practice to change your behavior towards others is to not gossip about others or judge others. This can be a very hard practice in today's world. I know I get caught in it a lot. I can pre- judge others without even thinking about it and I find myself gossiping often, even though I try not to. So my life resolution from today on will be to change my perception on others. I want to see others in a new light. I am going to continue to send my blessings to everyone I meet and create a better world that I will live in. I want to live like Ron did. I am so thankful that I knew Ron and am amazed by the person he was. He is still sending his blessings and I hope that this post will spread his joy to everyone who reads it.
Remember that we can change how we deal with life by changing our perception on life. It is in our hands!
Peace, Peace, Peace